Money as a Teacher: My Journey to Healing and Clarity
Money has always been a complex subject for me, but right now, as I approach 50, it’s become even more of a powerful teacher. In my latest podcast episode, I share what I’ve been learning in real-time, as I reexamine these stories and beliefs, and the practical steps I’m taking to heal my money relationship. It’s not just about making more money—it’s about how I want to steward it in today’s world, where the landscape is shifting. If you’re asking yourself similar questions, I want you to know you’re not alone, and I hope my journey offers some insight.
Beyond the podcast, I want to offer you something tangible. Below are the steps I’m actively working on, and I hope they help you with your own money story.
Why Money Still Matters (Even Now):
I’m learning that money isn’t just about earning more or accumulating things. It’s a reflection of my beliefs, my choices, and my relationship with the world. As I approach 50, I feel it’s essential to be more intentional about how I steward my money. In a world full of uncertainty, being a conscious, thoughtful steward of my financial resources feels more important than ever.
Here’s why money continues to matter in my life:
- Money is a teacher: It’s still showing up for me as I unpack new lessons about self-worth, business growth, and personal healing.
- Money shapes my reality: How I manage money impacts my ability to create the life I desire, from business growth to family support and self-care.
- It’s about stewardship: Right now, more than ever, I feel the need to manage my money with care, focus, and purpose.
What’s Next?
As I work through these big questions, I’m continually stepping into a new version of myself—one that’s intentional with money and life I’m creating. It’s an ongoing process, and I’m excited to share it with you. If you’re looking to transform your own relationship with money, I hope this episode—and these steps—offer you a roadmap.
I’m not done yet. As I move into my 50s, I’m still healing, still learning, and still growing in my relationship with money. But I know this: the work I’m doing now will shape the next chapter of my life in powerful wys.
I’d love to hear what comes up for you as you reflect on your own money story. Are you asking the same questions? Let’s have a conversation about it. Come connect on Instagram — I’d love to hear from you in the comments or in the DMs.
What I’m Learning Right Now (And How It Can Help You):
This journey isn’t over for me. Part of me feels like I’m just starting the good part! I’m actively re-asking myself big questions as I step into this new phase of my life. It’s not just about fixing things—it’s about truly understanding my relationship with money and how I can grow from it.
In this episode, I share the key lessons I’m learning in real time. I’m digging into my limiting beliefs, examining the things I’ve always assumed about money, and uncovering how these stories have shaped my entrepreneurial journey.
Tangible Steps I’m Taking Right Now (And You Can Too):
- Identify Your Money Stories
Money is still a huge teacher for me. I’m asking myself where my old stories are still holding me back. What were the beliefs I grew up with? What messages did I pick up from my family or society? Take some time to reflect on your own stories. Write them out—no judgment, just discovery. This is the first step in freeing yourself from money’s grip. - Ask Yourself, “What Do I Really Want?”
I’m constantly coming back to this question. Not just about money, but about life in general. What do I truly want as I move into my 50s? Does it align with my current financial reality, or do I need to create a new plan? This kind of clarity helps me align my money actions with what matters most. - Take Regular “Money Dates”
Just like I prioritize my health and business, I’m making money a priority. I’m committing to regular “money dates” to sit down, look at my finances, and get clear about where I’m at. This practice eliminates fear and helps me be more intentional with how I manage my money. - Set Clear, Actionable Financial Goals
I’m a big fan of setting a goal and focusing on the steps that get me there. But lately, I’ve been focusing more on the daily actions rather than the final number. Instead of just setting an income goal, I’m asking, “What can I do every day to create that result?” Whether it’s reaching out to potential clients or improving my financial systems, breaking it down into actions makes it feel more achievable. - Get Support and Accountability
This is something I’m doing right now—finding the right people to support me. Whether it’s a new bookkeeper, a financial coach, or just a trusted friend, having support as I work through these questions has been invaluable. If you’re on this journey too, don’t be afraid to ask for help.
